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Response to “When a Loved One Struggles with Same-Sex Attraction”

Tyler Perry In September 1999, the Church published an article in the Ensign entitled “When a Loved One Struggles with Same-Sex Attraction” by A. Dean Byrd, a prominent advocate of “conversion therapy”.   This article remains published on the Church’s website, as of 19 July 2020 [1].   The article advocates for conversion therapy and other harmful practices that have been denounced by the American Psychiatric Association [2].   This essay is a response and a petition to the LDS church to take down, denounce, and apologize for the article. The article is broken into three major sections, and I will structure this essay to address each of the sections in turn.   WHAT RESEARCH SHOWS First, allow me to reiterate that Byrd was an advocate for conversion therapy.   As such, the section of the article entitled “What Research Shows” is dedicated to this idea that conversion therapy works and is recommended for at least some individuals.   He begins by listing some potential causes f

These Mysteries Are Not Yet Made Known to Me

Tyler Perry When I make posts or comments about the intersection of LGBTQ identities and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons), well-meaning and well-intentioned members often make statements that are best described by a single verse from the Book of Mormon. “Now these mysteries are not yet fully made known unto me; therefore I shall forbear” (Alma 37:11).   A similar verse reads, “I know that he loveth his children; nevertheless, I do not know the meaning of all things” (1 Nephi 11:17).   Members of the church use these scriptures as a basis for expressing acceptance and love of LGBTQ members, even when that love and acceptance runs into opposition with the doctrines and teachings of the church. For the individual members, I understand why this may be the best that you can offer.   Inasmuch as you still show love and acceptance for your LGBTQ loved ones, this answer is fine.   You have, in a way, declared, “I love you and I love God.   I will not let the one ge